Sunday, January 23, 2011

checkmate.

feeding a toddler is like chess. you need a strategy. you need to outsmart your opponent (aka your kid). you need multiple players (food groups) to make its way across the board only to get knocked out by said opponent. it's a game and a constant battle all rolled up into one.

luckily, cam is a pretty good eater. he's usually not too picky but he does have days where he refuses to eat what i offer him and other days where he devours the same foods he refused just the day before.

but there is a strategy to feeding my son.

you have to offer him a number of different items. you never know what he's gonna like on any given day.

if you put too much in front of him at one time, he's overwhelmed and just starts throwing stuff around.

if he's eating something with vigor, but you mention something else, he will now ONLY want what you just mentioned. like today, cam was happily eating his fish, which i wanted him to eat. then brian comes along and goes, "cam, do you want noodles?" great, daddy. now all cam wants are those unhealthy noodles even if he has half a bowl left of fish that he was blissfully enjoying just 2 seconds ago.

and of course to top it all off, feeding is a completely messy experience and i feel bad for the clean up crew at restaurants. i think more food gets on the ground beneath his highchair at those places than in his mouth.

here's a list of the foods he likes at the moment. not that anyone reading this cares all that much, but it'll be nice for me to look back and remember it later on:

  • chicken. he will eat chicken made in pretty much any way imaginable.
  • oranges. his favorite at the moment. he can eat a whole orange PLUS other foods for a meal.
  • pears. if it's ripe enough, he loves them. if it's not, he turns it away.
  • bananas. loves them until i give it to him too much and then he's sick of them.
  • tofu. if it's prepared with soy sauce, ginger or miso, he's all over it.
  • purple sweet potato. LOVE.
  • broccoli cheese nuggets. a recipe i found on wholesome baby food. it's how i hide that dreaded broccoli and it works!
  • peanut butter sandwiches. he has mommy's genes! not allergic and can eat an entire sandwich.
  • cheese puffs. a bunch of different "toddler" brands are available but basically it's just baked cheetos if you ask me. he gets it as a treat sometimes and loves the stuff.
  • any kind of meat. he is daddy's son. this kid is a carnivore for sure.
  • eggs. he loves eggs. maybe because i ate a ton of it when he was in the womb?
  • fish. he really really like fish. it stinks up the house, but at least it's good for him.
  • noodles! he will eat any and all kinds of noodles. no matter what.
  • cream crackers. i'm sure these are not healthy for him at all, but he asks for them constantly.

on his dislike list?

  • vegetables. i need to figure out other ways to hide veggies. i try to give him cooked carrots, peas, beans, etc. no such luck. i did get him to eat green peppers that were hidden with his tofu once. maybe i should try that again...
  • asian pear. brian and i think they're delicious but cam does not agree.
  • mushrooms. he doesn't seem to be a fan.
  • cabbage. unless i stuff it in his mouth with some noodles, he won't eat it.
  • applesauce. this is a crap shoot. some days he loves it, others he hates it.
  • muffins. some days, love. other days, eh.
  • grapes. i try and try to give them to him and he just does not like them.
  • strawberries. same as grapes! not having it.

let the games begin!

camden updates 2011

you'd think that my appendectomy recovery would have made me blog a lot since i was practically chained to the house for 2 weeks, but clearly that has not been the case. thankfully, i'm pretty much healed from that random and incredibly painful ordeal, and thanks to brian and my wonderful parents, these past couple of weeks have almost felt like a mommy vacation! since i couldn't carry camden for 2 weeks post-surgery, i couldn't take cam in or out of his crib, put him in his high chair or do much of anything. so, i milked it for all it was worth. i slept in every morning and gladly let my mom feed him during the day. i missed carrying camden but i have to admit, after awhile i got used to my new found freedom. i could sit around and not feel guilty about it cause i figured after all that appendix pain, i deserved it!

but now my 2 weeks are up and it's back to normal mommyhood soon. i've been carrying cam here and there the last couple of days and i have to say, it felt so nice to "up up" him again.

but enough of that.

so what's new with cam these days? well, he's babbling a lot more. he's definitely telling us something but most of the time you're guess is as good as ours as to what he's saying. his vocabulary now consists of:

mama
dada
nana (banana)
wawa (water)
baba (binky or big bird)
papa (grandpa)
gahma (grandma)
nu-doh (noodle)
ah-mm (elmo)
ku-kuhm (cookie monster)
cuh-cuh (this means a number of things: cracker, keys and car are what i can make out so far)

it's not much, but at least it's something! other new feats:
  • he nods his head yes. but it's only one nod and then bouncing of his body.
  • he knows how to spin around in a circle, both on his feet and while sitting on his butt. daddy taught him both.
  • he can knock on doors.
  • if he wants to show you something or wants you to do something, he'll grab your hand to lead you somewhere or put your hand on whatever it is he wants. i.e. if he wants you to unscrew the cap to his sippy cup, he'll grab your hand and put it on the cap. incredibly cute!
  • he can point to and/or show you his head, ears, eyes, nose, mouth, belly (in both japanese and english) teeth, hair, feet, toes, hands and fingers (only in english cause i don't readily know the japanese names for all of the last six).
  • he does the "hot dog" dance anytime he sees mickey mouse. if you've every watch mickey mouse club playhouse, you know what i'm talking about.

here's my handsome little man, growing up so fast!